My due date is tomorrow, and I know that due dates are just estimates but Im so tired and sick Im ready for it to be over. I had to go in and get some testing done yesterday because of some severe swelling in my feet and ankles. They took blood and the doctor said that there was a little bit of protein in my urine. so they took more urine as well. He said he would have the on call doctor take a look at the results and call me with the result since its a saturday and he wont be in the office. I have not heard anything yet. This is my fourth pregnancy and Im just over exhausted since all of my kids were born nice and healthy before 39 weeks. Im feeling really discouraged because I dont want to work and stand on my feet for another 8 hour shift, My pelvis feels like its breaking in half, Im extremely worn out, and I hate having tree trunks for legs. Does anyone have any suggestions to help get labor started? Anything that worked for you? Even some uplifting words lol? Thanks in advance!
Oh and also Im 3cm dilated, 60%effaced, and the babys head is stationed at a +2 the doctor said.Due tomorrow...any words of wisdom or advice..Please answer?
I have never made it to the 40 weeks point so i can't imagine how much you're really ready for this to be over!! I am already ready. You're still working?! You're crazy! lol. If you would like to induce labor naturally good ways are walking, squatting, bouncing on the excersize ball, eating pineapple or drinking pineapple juice, acupressure, sex (whos in the mood at 40 weeks?) and nipple stimulation. Good luck, I hope you go in tonight!Due tomorrow...any words of wisdom or advice..Please answer?
I wish you the best of luck nothing helped me go into labour with my 1st i was 2 weeks overdue with him.... I hope its not much longer for ya!! Good Luck!! Hopefully soon you will have your little baby in your arms!
AAaawwwww!!!! Good Luck and control your breathing! CONGRATS!!!!!
Good Luck and Congrats
Oh i feel so sorry for you, at least your time is up, i've still got 7 weeks to go and i'm sick and tired of being pregnant.
Buy some evening primrose capsules and insert two vaginally at night and swallow two during the day, that'll help ripen your cervix.
Drink raspberry leaf tea, it tones up your uterus but it can also start off contractions.
Squatting, skipping and bouncing on a ball can help your baby engage.
Eating spicey food, pineapple or kiwi can start off labour because of the enzymes in the foods.
Nipple stimulation, multiple orgasms and sex can all help too.
Drinking alot of water and walking loads can help too!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
I'm joining the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve...does anyone have any words of wisdon or advice?
Good for you...Wish you all the best.I'm joining the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve...does anyone have any words of wisdon or advice?
Fair winds and good sailing.
Cpl of MarinesI'm joining the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve...does anyone have any words of wisdon or advice?
good luck
Hurray for you, I spent 22 years grate life I was Army .. I Have had friends in Cost Guard they all loved it ....
Dont drop the soap.
in all seriousness Good Luck and thanks for serving your country.
I'm joining the Coast Guard too. But not the reserves. I leave in Sept. From my husband who is in the navy told me. To prepare for boot camp. Run, puchups, setups, start saying yes sir and no sir to people. Good luck to you.
Recognize that most of us see you as our hero, and are grateful. Don't let the seditious and socialists get you down. Hate-America is not sexy. I'm a teacher, one of those careers that people foolishly try to say is ';heroic';.
No thanks. I don't risk my life like you will be. That takes courage, more than I had. It may not be the same as entering the military.
But you're a better ';man'; than I am. Good luck to you. God keep you safe.
My son was in the Coast Guard for 4 years. There are only 30 job titles--- all technical (the other services, being much larger, have about 4,000 %26amp; not all technical) what this means is that you have the opportunity to get excellent training for many jobs in the civilian world, Good luck %26amp; God bless to you and all our service men and women.
Thank you for serving!
Thank you for serving the people of the United States. I wish you all the best!
Hell have fun I guess. Take small boats if you can versus cutter duty. Small crew, fast boats, hands on rescue work. Cutters suck, might as well join the navy %26amp; get less space.
Read the contracts carefully before signing them. If recruiters promise you something, get it in writing. They are masters at bait %26amp; switch.
i can't answer your ?? sorry.. i have a ??? for u
is it easy to get in...? is the $$$ decent?
please add anything else that you feel is important...
good for you for joining a male dominated field... it can be tough
working with all men (i know from exp) but never let them see ya sweat and never let ur guard down... some men will try and test you... esp try to hit on you....
all da best!!!!!!!!
Make sure you pay attention when they teach you how to use your pants as flotation device. No joke, it might save your live one day.
Remember, you don't have to like a person who is a higher rank than you, and you don't have to respect them, but you do have to respect the uniform they wear and the rank they hold, because they earned that rank.
Tread lightly, you will come across people (NCO's and Officers) who you just don't like, but remember those words. A good friend of mine gave them to me, and I have used them well.
Good luck to you...also remember, basic training is for a very short time, once you are out, it is just a job. A job to be proud of.
Fair winds and good sailing.
Cpl of MarinesI'm joining the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve...does anyone have any words of wisdon or advice?
good luck
Hurray for you, I spent 22 years grate life I was Army .. I Have had friends in Cost Guard they all loved it ....
Dont drop the soap.
in all seriousness Good Luck and thanks for serving your country.
I'm joining the Coast Guard too. But not the reserves. I leave in Sept. From my husband who is in the navy told me. To prepare for boot camp. Run, puchups, setups, start saying yes sir and no sir to people. Good luck to you.
Recognize that most of us see you as our hero, and are grateful. Don't let the seditious and socialists get you down. Hate-America is not sexy. I'm a teacher, one of those careers that people foolishly try to say is ';heroic';.
No thanks. I don't risk my life like you will be. That takes courage, more than I had. It may not be the same as entering the military.
But you're a better ';man'; than I am. Good luck to you. God keep you safe.
My son was in the Coast Guard for 4 years. There are only 30 job titles--- all technical (the other services, being much larger, have about 4,000 %26amp; not all technical) what this means is that you have the opportunity to get excellent training for many jobs in the civilian world, Good luck %26amp; God bless to you and all our service men and women.
Thank you for serving!
Thank you for serving the people of the United States. I wish you all the best!
Hell have fun I guess. Take small boats if you can versus cutter duty. Small crew, fast boats, hands on rescue work. Cutters suck, might as well join the navy %26amp; get less space.
Read the contracts carefully before signing them. If recruiters promise you something, get it in writing. They are masters at bait %26amp; switch.
i can't answer your ?? sorry.. i have a ??? for u
is it easy to get in...? is the $$$ decent?
please add anything else that you feel is important...
good for you for joining a male dominated field... it can be tough
working with all men (i know from exp) but never let them see ya sweat and never let ur guard down... some men will try and test you... esp try to hit on you....
all da best!!!!!!!!
Make sure you pay attention when they teach you how to use your pants as flotation device. No joke, it might save your live one day.
Remember, you don't have to like a person who is a higher rank than you, and you don't have to respect them, but you do have to respect the uniform they wear and the rank they hold, because they earned that rank.
Tread lightly, you will come across people (NCO's and Officers) who you just don't like, but remember those words. A good friend of mine gave them to me, and I have used them well.
Good luck to you...also remember, basic training is for a very short time, once you are out, it is just a job. A job to be proud of.
I need alot of words of wisdom and advice please?!?
I am being induced Sunday night/ Monday morning. I will be 5 days over my due date on Monday. I go in to have the gel put on Sunday night and then Monday morning at 4am my doc said he will break my water. As of last Monday I was only %60 effaced and not dilated any! He does not seem worried about anything but I am! I here about all these people having emergency C sections that were induced. I dont want to go through ALL of that and then have extreme complications. This is my first. Anything to make me feel better?I need alot of words of wisdom and advice please?!?
I have been induced 3 times out of the 6. The reason for two of them is that they were 12 days overdue, the reason for the other was that my water broke and I still had no contractions 9 hours later. I was induced with the gel once, on one of the 12 day overs, as my cervix was not fully effaced, and hardly dilated. None of the inductions ended in a C-section, actually neither did any of my other births. I think that since you are overdue, everything will go ok. I think that C-sections due to induction are far more likely to happen when they try to induce labor too early (like in the instance of high blood pressure, or for other medical reasons). I will be wishing you all of the best. You do however have to go into it realizing that even if you weren't induced, there is always a chance of ending in a C-section no matter what.I need alot of words of wisdom and advice please?!?
calm down stress can cause labor to drag on, just relax and let the doctors do there job they know what they are doing. my sister had the same problem as you and she had a natural and quick labor and they are both doing fine. get all the rest you can cause you'll need to be rested have your husband massage you and take lots of naps. sometimes even just a cuddling session will calm you.
Refuse the induction. Unless the baby is stressed there really isn't any reason for it. Due dates are only accurate plus or minus 2 weeks, so you may not actually be over due. I'd tell him you want to wait another week and see. Then let him induce. Doctors like to rush things because an induction is easy to schedule, but this is your body. If you don't feel right about it then don't have it done.
Listen to your doctor they should know what tey are talking about.beauty advice
I have been induced 3 times out of the 6. The reason for two of them is that they were 12 days overdue, the reason for the other was that my water broke and I still had no contractions 9 hours later. I was induced with the gel once, on one of the 12 day overs, as my cervix was not fully effaced, and hardly dilated. None of the inductions ended in a C-section, actually neither did any of my other births. I think that since you are overdue, everything will go ok. I think that C-sections due to induction are far more likely to happen when they try to induce labor too early (like in the instance of high blood pressure, or for other medical reasons). I will be wishing you all of the best. You do however have to go into it realizing that even if you weren't induced, there is always a chance of ending in a C-section no matter what.I need alot of words of wisdom and advice please?!?
calm down stress can cause labor to drag on, just relax and let the doctors do there job they know what they are doing. my sister had the same problem as you and she had a natural and quick labor and they are both doing fine. get all the rest you can cause you'll need to be rested have your husband massage you and take lots of naps. sometimes even just a cuddling session will calm you.
Refuse the induction. Unless the baby is stressed there really isn't any reason for it. Due dates are only accurate plus or minus 2 weeks, so you may not actually be over due. I'd tell him you want to wait another week and see. Then let him induce. Doctors like to rush things because an induction is easy to schedule, but this is your body. If you don't feel right about it then don't have it done.
Listen to your doctor they should know what tey are talking about.
I need words of encouragement and advice.?
Im rly good friends with this girl and she didnt know how she felt about me and then i just asked her a few days ago and she decided she didnt. I asked her what she likes about me and she only said ';idk';
so i asked what she didnt like about me and she again only say ';idk';
so i said ';so do u think theres any chance of us happening?'; and she said ';i rly dont think so'; but im in love wit her and we've been talking on the phone and txting n shes an extremely flirty girl but im sick of getting lead on by her and then coming to realization that she dosent wanna go out wit me so i start feeling terrible
i need some encouragement and advice to get her out of my head but i still rly want her as just a friend any advice???I need words of encouragement and advice.?
I would suggest rebuilding the friendship again. Don't talk to her for a few days so you can give her some space and let her (and you) think. Then, maybe talk to her, but don't bring up about any ';love'; stuff. Then, when you really think she's ready (and you're ready) to ask her. It's best if it has been a few months before you ask her those questions again.
Good luck!I need words of encouragement and advice.?
Advice #1 : Learn how to write in English. How old are you anyway? 12? If you are, then sorry! You麓ll learn soon.
Advice #2 : Don麓t let her use you. She麓s flirty... okay!
So she is not the right person for you. Say good bye and walk away.
If she doesn麓t think that you will get anywhere, then she won麓t let it happen...
You deserve better! You麓ll have plenty of friends who care for you, you don麓t need her!
Don't worry.
she's not girlfriend material.
Focus on the things that you don't like about her.
Try to focus on the good things about other girls that you could possibly like.
She isn't worth your time if she's going to act like this.
Good Luckk.
well im not sure how old she is but she might not know what or who she wants, if shes extremely flirty than she probably cant help it if she leads you on
maybe if you dont talk to her alot than your feelings will slowly go away
so i asked what she didnt like about me and she again only say ';idk';
so i said ';so do u think theres any chance of us happening?'; and she said ';i rly dont think so'; but im in love wit her and we've been talking on the phone and txting n shes an extremely flirty girl but im sick of getting lead on by her and then coming to realization that she dosent wanna go out wit me so i start feeling terrible
i need some encouragement and advice to get her out of my head but i still rly want her as just a friend any advice???I need words of encouragement and advice.?
I would suggest rebuilding the friendship again. Don't talk to her for a few days so you can give her some space and let her (and you) think. Then, maybe talk to her, but don't bring up about any ';love'; stuff. Then, when you really think she's ready (and you're ready) to ask her. It's best if it has been a few months before you ask her those questions again.
Good luck!I need words of encouragement and advice.?
Advice #1 : Learn how to write in English. How old are you anyway? 12? If you are, then sorry! You麓ll learn soon.
Advice #2 : Don麓t let her use you. She麓s flirty... okay!
So she is not the right person for you. Say good bye and walk away.
If she doesn麓t think that you will get anywhere, then she won麓t let it happen...
You deserve better! You麓ll have plenty of friends who care for you, you don麓t need her!
Don't worry.
she's not girlfriend material.
Focus on the things that you don't like about her.
Try to focus on the good things about other girls that you could possibly like.
She isn't worth your time if she's going to act like this.
Good Luckk.
well im not sure how old she is but she might not know what or who she wants, if shes extremely flirty than she probably cant help it if she leads you on
maybe if you dont talk to her alot than your feelings will slowly go away
Any words of encouragement or advice for my situation?
I graduated with my A.A this year.I hoped to further my Education at a 4 year school this Fall but due to financial difficulties and a husband who would rather go clubbing 3 times a week and help his mom with her bills and buy a car than help me pay my tuition,I will not be attending.I have always been strong and ambitious.I always took my Education seriously.I now feel hopeless and discouraged.I also have a baby on the way.I did not plan my life to turn out this way.The only thing that keeps me going is knowing that I was given the gift of motherhood and I will soon be showered with unconditional love by my little one.Any words of encouragement or advice for my situation?
Congratulations on your graduation and your upcoming bundle of joy!
I know this situation can be stressful, but have you talked to your husband about it?
I can understand your frustration with your husband, but he may have good motives for his actions.
Perhaps he feels that with a baby on the way school is not a priority. He may be going out clubbing to enjoy his last moments before becoming a father, and I think it's great that he's supporting his mother. This shows he's a family man, and hopefully he will do the same for you when you are the mother of his child (which is soon!) Also, the car may seem extravagant, but it may also be part of preparing for your family, so maybe ask him if this was the case.
If you haven't already, try to explain to your husband how important your education is to you. It may be difficult to go back to school until your child is a little older, but which is help in caring for the child, it is definitely possible. Tell him how important this is to you and that you feel discouraged. Tell him you are concerned about some of the decisions he's been making and that you would like to know what his priorities are. As the mother of his child, you should definitely be somewhere on the top of the list!Any words of encouragement or advice for my situation?
You have the power to control your own life. Everything you have thought and done up to now has brought these events into your life. Everything you are doing now is planning your future for you. Try applying for student loans or grants to further your education. I was able to get some great aid for my last 2 years of school. Took me 10 years to pay it off but it was worth it.
Try watching ';You Can Heal Your Life'; by Louise Hay and ';The Secret'; by Rhonda Byrne. Both great videos to get your mind on track and remind you that you are the one in control of your life.
There are so many things you can do for money for school. Talk to a school counselor and tell them you have no funds right now and need all the help you can get. As for your hubby-tell him to grow up and be a man. If you can't get him to help you over his own mama you need to give him a reality check. Seriously, when a man has a family the family comes first-not the parents. Good luck to you and don't give up on that education-
You just make sure that you keep going on with your education. It is wonderful that you have your A.A. and you are a soon to be mother. I've been in a very similar situation but now my husband is more mature and I am working on my Masters degree. I even have a beautiful 15 month old. Don't feel hopeless and don't feel discouraged. You can do it because I did!
yes i was crying 2 days ago for the same situation my husband rather help his sister pay her tuition than help me ! now he told me to get a job ! is so stupid that you can even count with the person you love and thought that they wil be by your side supporting you 100%. hang in there! at least you have you A.A i don't have none! congrats for your baby! try to talk to him to see if he help you! good luck
Motherhood is great but it's not going to pay the bills. Neither will your husband if he doesn't get his act together. If you want to go to school apply for grants and aid. There is always a way to do it. Good luck.
There are ways to fund your tuition so don't give up.
Maybe you want to focus on the baby right now...but there is a way.
Look for programs and scholarships that you can qualify for.
You can do it !! I know you will !
Your problems seem to start and end with your husband, maybe you should get rid of him and make a future for you and your child alone, and continue with your studies. Good luck.
you sound just like my brother. my mom wont sign a loan for school for him so he is thinking of giving up. don't let anyone stand in your way you do what you want to do follow your dreams.
If you work at a college your tuition is discounted, sometimes free, look for a job at a school.
Get a loan to go to school with....and once you have completed your education...get a job and leave your immature husband....
I suggest that you get a job and attempt to pay your own tutition.
grant time
Fill out a fafsa form and see if you can get money.
Congrats on your degree. Don't blame your husband for you not continuing though, not his fault. It is a huge priviledge to be able to afford or have access to a higher education, not a need or requirement.
Since you are having a baby you will likely qualify for federal grants and loans. You only have a couple more years of school so you won't end up in very much debt. I would go that route if you really want to continue.
Seriously, if you want to continue school you will.
BTW - children do not shower you with love...lol....they suck the life out of you then give you JUST enough love to make it balance out.
Keep ur head up girl, try not to worry or stress yourself over what has happened, just know that in time u will have your baby and hopefully when the baby is older u will be able to go back and do the things that u wanted to do, yes life can throw a curve ball in your way sometimes, and sometimes ur plans has to go on hold but with commitment, ,and perseverance u can and will make it, don't give up on ur dreams, just try again after the baby comes, and work even harder at making it come through for u.GL to you!
Wow, I would be very sad and feeling the same way that you do. I think that is great that you have a little one on the way and yes that will be unconditional and it will be great for you to feel that with your baby. Congrats on getting your AA that is a great accomplishment. I used to be with someone like that and did not really care about my college and put everything else in front of him so I ended it. I think it is sad that your husband isn't supportive and would rather be a mamma's boy than be your solid rock that you need in your life. I think you need to sit down and talk with your husband and explain to him how you are feeling and what is on your heart because if you don't then you will always regret talking to him about it. He won't be able to fix it unless you talk with him and let him know how you feel! You can still be ambititous so get out there and find ways to get to college. Take care!! :)
First, expect the shower to be cold. Yes, babies (and children in general) will love you unconditionally, but they are selfish and demanding too. They don't understand your needs, only their wants.
Question: You say you didn't plan your life to turn out this way... did you PLAN differently? If you didn't have a plan, you are right where you put yourself. BUT, your life hasn't ';turned out'; at all, yet. You're not finished. Stick to your guns and never give up on something better. And get the moron out of the clubs, he's going to be a father. He should start acting like one...
Congratulations on your graduation and your upcoming bundle of joy!
I know this situation can be stressful, but have you talked to your husband about it?
I can understand your frustration with your husband, but he may have good motives for his actions.
Perhaps he feels that with a baby on the way school is not a priority. He may be going out clubbing to enjoy his last moments before becoming a father, and I think it's great that he's supporting his mother. This shows he's a family man, and hopefully he will do the same for you when you are the mother of his child (which is soon!) Also, the car may seem extravagant, but it may also be part of preparing for your family, so maybe ask him if this was the case.
If you haven't already, try to explain to your husband how important your education is to you. It may be difficult to go back to school until your child is a little older, but which is help in caring for the child, it is definitely possible. Tell him how important this is to you and that you feel discouraged. Tell him you are concerned about some of the decisions he's been making and that you would like to know what his priorities are. As the mother of his child, you should definitely be somewhere on the top of the list!Any words of encouragement or advice for my situation?
You have the power to control your own life. Everything you have thought and done up to now has brought these events into your life. Everything you are doing now is planning your future for you. Try applying for student loans or grants to further your education. I was able to get some great aid for my last 2 years of school. Took me 10 years to pay it off but it was worth it.
Try watching ';You Can Heal Your Life'; by Louise Hay and ';The Secret'; by Rhonda Byrne. Both great videos to get your mind on track and remind you that you are the one in control of your life.
There are so many things you can do for money for school. Talk to a school counselor and tell them you have no funds right now and need all the help you can get. As for your hubby-tell him to grow up and be a man. If you can't get him to help you over his own mama you need to give him a reality check. Seriously, when a man has a family the family comes first-not the parents. Good luck to you and don't give up on that education-
You just make sure that you keep going on with your education. It is wonderful that you have your A.A. and you are a soon to be mother. I've been in a very similar situation but now my husband is more mature and I am working on my Masters degree. I even have a beautiful 15 month old. Don't feel hopeless and don't feel discouraged. You can do it because I did!
yes i was crying 2 days ago for the same situation my husband rather help his sister pay her tuition than help me ! now he told me to get a job ! is so stupid that you can even count with the person you love and thought that they wil be by your side supporting you 100%. hang in there! at least you have you A.A i don't have none! congrats for your baby! try to talk to him to see if he help you! good luck
Motherhood is great but it's not going to pay the bills. Neither will your husband if he doesn't get his act together. If you want to go to school apply for grants and aid. There is always a way to do it. Good luck.
There are ways to fund your tuition so don't give up.
Maybe you want to focus on the baby right now...but there is a way.
Look for programs and scholarships that you can qualify for.
You can do it !! I know you will !
Your problems seem to start and end with your husband, maybe you should get rid of him and make a future for you and your child alone, and continue with your studies. Good luck.
you sound just like my brother. my mom wont sign a loan for school for him so he is thinking of giving up. don't let anyone stand in your way you do what you want to do follow your dreams.
If you work at a college your tuition is discounted, sometimes free, look for a job at a school.
Get a loan to go to school with....and once you have completed your education...get a job and leave your immature husband....
I suggest that you get a job and attempt to pay your own tutition.
grant time
Fill out a fafsa form and see if you can get money.
Congrats on your degree. Don't blame your husband for you not continuing though, not his fault. It is a huge priviledge to be able to afford or have access to a higher education, not a need or requirement.
Since you are having a baby you will likely qualify for federal grants and loans. You only have a couple more years of school so you won't end up in very much debt. I would go that route if you really want to continue.
Seriously, if you want to continue school you will.
BTW - children do not shower you with love...lol....they suck the life out of you then give you JUST enough love to make it balance out.
Keep ur head up girl, try not to worry or stress yourself over what has happened, just know that in time u will have your baby and hopefully when the baby is older u will be able to go back and do the things that u wanted to do, yes life can throw a curve ball in your way sometimes, and sometimes ur plans has to go on hold but with commitment, ,and perseverance u can and will make it, don't give up on ur dreams, just try again after the baby comes, and work even harder at making it come through for u.GL to you!
Wow, I would be very sad and feeling the same way that you do. I think that is great that you have a little one on the way and yes that will be unconditional and it will be great for you to feel that with your baby. Congrats on getting your AA that is a great accomplishment. I used to be with someone like that and did not really care about my college and put everything else in front of him so I ended it. I think it is sad that your husband isn't supportive and would rather be a mamma's boy than be your solid rock that you need in your life. I think you need to sit down and talk with your husband and explain to him how you are feeling and what is on your heart because if you don't then you will always regret talking to him about it. He won't be able to fix it unless you talk with him and let him know how you feel! You can still be ambititous so get out there and find ways to get to college. Take care!! :)
First, expect the shower to be cold. Yes, babies (and children in general) will love you unconditionally, but they are selfish and demanding too. They don't understand your needs, only their wants.
Question: You say you didn't plan your life to turn out this way... did you PLAN differently? If you didn't have a plan, you are right where you put yourself. BUT, your life hasn't ';turned out'; at all, yet. You're not finished. Stick to your guns and never give up on something better. And get the moron out of the clubs, he's going to be a father. He should start acting like one...
Advice on my words of wisdom?
I made this quote up all by myself. I'm not sure if its because of my ex gfs or what. Give me your advice. Use it for your exs if you want them back.
';Love what you have, or you'll learn to love what you lose.';
Nathan McDorman (2008)Advice on my words of wisdom?
very, very goodAdvice on my words of wisdom?
its good buddy try making some more
';you'll learn to love what you've lost'; would be better But yes very true.. And yes a broken heart will do that to you :(
Well how would you love what you lose? that makes no sense. try something like
';Love what you have or regret what you had'; Alex M(2008)
kinda korny
I like it...it's a different take on how you don't know what you've got until it's gone...
Hi!
Well, I like it.... and at the same time I'm still trying to understand what you're saying. That's perfectly fine though, because it only really needs to make sense to you, and if it inspires you then all the better for it !! Good for you, expressing yourself and putting it out there is a tough thing to do, especially when you have critics lining up at the door to start passing judgement on you and your character.
Keep going.... it's good for the soul !!
not so good, sounds boring!, make it more appealing and pleasing to the reader. (sorry)
Has this been your experience with your gf? Has she learned to love you now that she has left? Has she come back for a second chance?
It does you no good to try to fix her as you never have control over another person. Learn what you did to cause the breakup as it will make you wiser in your next relationship.
She may have caused the parting. It could be her fault but you can do nothing about her. Look to yourself and be a wiser man next time. The very best of luck and good management!
It's a big world with lots of wonderful people in it and there's one just for you.
and then when u lose...dont ever lose the lesson....
It's okay. I think it's been said before, in a different way however, no offense.
';Love what you have, or you'll learn to love what you lose.';
Nathan McDorman (2008)Advice on my words of wisdom?
very, very goodAdvice on my words of wisdom?
its good buddy try making some more
';you'll learn to love what you've lost'; would be better But yes very true.. And yes a broken heart will do that to you :(
Well how would you love what you lose? that makes no sense. try something like
';Love what you have or regret what you had'; Alex M(2008)
kinda korny
I like it...it's a different take on how you don't know what you've got until it's gone...
Hi!
Well, I like it.... and at the same time I'm still trying to understand what you're saying. That's perfectly fine though, because it only really needs to make sense to you, and if it inspires you then all the better for it !! Good for you, expressing yourself and putting it out there is a tough thing to do, especially when you have critics lining up at the door to start passing judgement on you and your character.
Keep going.... it's good for the soul !!
not so good, sounds boring!, make it more appealing and pleasing to the reader. (sorry)
Has this been your experience with your gf? Has she learned to love you now that she has left? Has she come back for a second chance?
It does you no good to try to fix her as you never have control over another person. Learn what you did to cause the breakup as it will make you wiser in your next relationship.
She may have caused the parting. It could be her fault but you can do nothing about her. Look to yourself and be a wiser man next time. The very best of luck and good management!
It's a big world with lots of wonderful people in it and there's one just for you.
and then when u lose...dont ever lose the lesson....
It's okay. I think it's been said before, in a different way however, no offense.
I need Words of good advice...?
Since I was very young I've experienced life in the most kind and un-kind ways with extreme measures in each.
Sometime in the recent years I feel that to reach my dream in life I have to always keep my self happy and not let my dreams fade away, the dreams since my younger ages.
But recently I feel so broken, so un-emotional, like everything's slowly working out but I've lost that control I use to have...
I use to be able to control my anger, my emotions, my desires and always knew what was best because I had a good feeling about what I was doing.
But lately I feel like I cannot sleep until 3-4am. I don't feel tired, but I feel more tired emotionally and I just need some word of advice to get me back on track. I use to never feel fear of anyone or anything and now over recent events I'm scared!
Can I have some advice please.
Something to help me understand?I need Words of good advice...?
you should smoke the ganja listen to stuff thatll make you laugh katt williams listen to reggae ziggy marley and bob marley have sex lol i hope i made you loosen up a little dont worry about life go with the flow every time something goes wrong say to yourself fu** this and move onI need Words of good advice...?
YOU ARE OFFICIALLY A TEENAGER!!
';Life and death,
energy and peace,
If I stop today, it would have still been worth it,
for the pains that have burned me and scarred my soul,
for having been where I have been,
which as been to heaven on earth,
hell on earth,
and back again,
it was still all worth it';
This is an extract from the worlds 'first supermodel' Gia carangi's writings. She was one of the first people to die from HIV related illness. This was written, when she knew she was dying.
It's beautiful, isn't it?
What she was saying is Life is life is life, and life is important.
We have to take the knocks, blows and side kicks, from wherever they may come and continue onward, until we can finally say, I was here, I have experienced also, and therefore I have lived. What a life too!
God can help you live a better life if you want Him to. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: ';Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.'; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could try out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
well what you need to do is be completely honest with yourself, ask yourself what needs to be done to make me happy, is it a man a new job an animal in your life anything?????
if none of that is what your lacking then you need to re-evaluate your priorities and get out of this life style you have gotten so use to that now bores you and invouilintarily stresses you out and causes you to not let your mind rest.
this might sound crazy but, get away asap
grab your best friend,sibling or go by yourself and do what you want to do. go somewhere random or go visit an old friend or a family member that can ease your mind
i really hope the best for you
from
kaele
spiritual healing and reiki
and a good massage may help you much Testimonies
Spiritual healing ,Seichim and Reiki healing
When People speak about their condition and tell of the benefits which they have found by employing the treatments one can only feel humbled .These are just a few of the many thousands of comments which have been made .Sometimes the therapies have been literally a life saver bringing people back from the point of death, sometimes out of a life of years of misery and suffering, they are all interesting reading.
Spiritual healing
Harry Edwards recalled the case of a young man who, accompanied by a lady, was brought to me for healing. He was in great pain and eaten-up with arthritis. As the healing proceeded, so his pains left him, and his joints began to loosen and become free. When I had finished treating him, it was a real delight to see how wonderfully glad he was to be able to use his legs, feet, arms and hands again... and then he told me: ';When I came here, I was convinced no one could help me, and I came only to please my Aunt, who brought me.';
You worked a miracle with his father when he was very ill 1983-84 when I wrote to you, but you will be pleased to know he is now working for the Council and lives a fairly normal life.
I's report is complete - he is 100% fit and will have no trouble in resuming his sporting activities -considering the first reports, this is a miracle. I do not know how I would have managed without your wonderful help.
You and the late Harry Edwards helped me so often and indeed I am still pressing on 18 years after I was expected to die from my last bout of cancer.
I wrote to ask for healing for my sister who was to undergo an operation for aneurysm in the aorta. Her operation was very successful. After 1 day in intensive care and 2 days in progressive care she was back in her own room and has done extremely well. She was allowed home after 7 days when she had been told to expect to be in hospital for 10 to 15 days. Everyone was amazed at her recovery and the surgeon told her she had been a perfect patient. I feel sure the absent healing and our prayers were to a great extent responsible for this wonderful recovery and I thank you most sincerely for your help.
I thought perhaps you would like to have a record of the people you have helped during the time I have been sending reports. M.L. -angina, complete recovery. D. L. -duodenal ulcer, complete healing. B.L. - Angina, complete recovery. P.D. - Leukaemia - apparent full recovery.
On behalf of my mother, daughter and myself may I thank you for the lovely day at your Sanctuary last Tuesday. My mother is so much better it is truly amazing. She can stretch out her arms and even raise them to her head and her walking is much stronger. My daughter was very impressed, too. 1141/6
My condition improved in as much as I now have much more self-confidence and ability to deal with my everyday life. 1145/6
G.S. Good news. Up until recently he had to be helped to get into and out of his car. It is adapted to enable a disabled person to drive, The other day he got into his car entirely on his own and drove some 12 miles to a nearby town. Got out on his own and went into a shop to make a purchase. No wheelchair anymore! 1142/6
You both, along with our friends in Spirit, have been directing healing for our daughter who, as I told you, has been given a full bill of health, thank you. 1146/6
I must report to you the miracle that soon after writing to you about my husband's ill health due to smoking, he decided to give up the habit and has not smoked since. I never thought it possible. It has been well worth it all. His general health has improved considerably. 1148/6
i wouldnt smoke no ganja,i tried smokin and it gave me a panic attack... but first off try to face what ever it is that has happend and try to tell yourself that these things can make u a stronger person and with you experience u can help guide others that are going through aot and that have had bad things happen to them... i grew up too with not everthing so pleasent i understand what u are saying..but dont let these things take control of the rest of your life..i did and i am 30 and still trying to fix all these emothional problems and control the anxiety and painc attacks..i would try to face what ever it is and just keep in minnd wat dont kill u can only make u stronger...and if u have to get a theropist ..i did and getting stuff off my chest and out really did help..at 1st i didnt think so ..but it does help and i use it as me time ...but i hope i helped u out a little at least..and u are not alone and i wish u the best of luck
Firstly,you need to go to bed earlier. I am in the habit of falling asleep at such hours too,and lack of sleep can effect your emotions. The only way to get around this is to stay awake until six sevenish in the evening and conk out to get your sleeping pattern back to normal. Being awake at them hours give you way too much time to think into yourself and find the negative things. We all have dreams and ambitions that we want to make come true. Your probably just emotionaly tired of being patient with making your way towards your goals,even though your sometimes not seeing any improvements. You need to inspire yourself again. Do something that will give you a strong sense of achievment..like hit the gym for an hour and you will come back out feeling mentally stronger and have more pride in yourself. Refusing things you dont need like a ciggarette or an temper outburst can put your thinking in good perspective afterwards,believe me,I know. Gain control of the little things before you try to gain control of the big things. Nip it in the bud or you will not make a change in this decline. Dont be scared of whatever it is that is scaring you. Conquer your fear,strive on,you know you can do it if you have being doing it all along before.:) Take care.x
Sometime in the recent years I feel that to reach my dream in life I have to always keep my self happy and not let my dreams fade away, the dreams since my younger ages.
But recently I feel so broken, so un-emotional, like everything's slowly working out but I've lost that control I use to have...
I use to be able to control my anger, my emotions, my desires and always knew what was best because I had a good feeling about what I was doing.
But lately I feel like I cannot sleep until 3-4am. I don't feel tired, but I feel more tired emotionally and I just need some word of advice to get me back on track. I use to never feel fear of anyone or anything and now over recent events I'm scared!
Can I have some advice please.
Something to help me understand?I need Words of good advice...?
you should smoke the ganja listen to stuff thatll make you laugh katt williams listen to reggae ziggy marley and bob marley have sex lol i hope i made you loosen up a little dont worry about life go with the flow every time something goes wrong say to yourself fu** this and move onI need Words of good advice...?
YOU ARE OFFICIALLY A TEENAGER!!
';Life and death,
energy and peace,
If I stop today, it would have still been worth it,
for the pains that have burned me and scarred my soul,
for having been where I have been,
which as been to heaven on earth,
hell on earth,
and back again,
it was still all worth it';
This is an extract from the worlds 'first supermodel' Gia carangi's writings. She was one of the first people to die from HIV related illness. This was written, when she knew she was dying.
It's beautiful, isn't it?
What she was saying is Life is life is life, and life is important.
We have to take the knocks, blows and side kicks, from wherever they may come and continue onward, until we can finally say, I was here, I have experienced also, and therefore I have lived. What a life too!
God can help you live a better life if you want Him to. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: ';Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.'; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could try out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
well what you need to do is be completely honest with yourself, ask yourself what needs to be done to make me happy, is it a man a new job an animal in your life anything?????
if none of that is what your lacking then you need to re-evaluate your priorities and get out of this life style you have gotten so use to that now bores you and invouilintarily stresses you out and causes you to not let your mind rest.
this might sound crazy but, get away asap
grab your best friend,sibling or go by yourself and do what you want to do. go somewhere random or go visit an old friend or a family member that can ease your mind
i really hope the best for you
from
kaele
spiritual healing and reiki
and a good massage may help you much Testimonies
Spiritual healing ,Seichim and Reiki healing
When People speak about their condition and tell of the benefits which they have found by employing the treatments one can only feel humbled .These are just a few of the many thousands of comments which have been made .Sometimes the therapies have been literally a life saver bringing people back from the point of death, sometimes out of a life of years of misery and suffering, they are all interesting reading.
Spiritual healing
Harry Edwards recalled the case of a young man who, accompanied by a lady, was brought to me for healing. He was in great pain and eaten-up with arthritis. As the healing proceeded, so his pains left him, and his joints began to loosen and become free. When I had finished treating him, it was a real delight to see how wonderfully glad he was to be able to use his legs, feet, arms and hands again... and then he told me: ';When I came here, I was convinced no one could help me, and I came only to please my Aunt, who brought me.';
You worked a miracle with his father when he was very ill 1983-84 when I wrote to you, but you will be pleased to know he is now working for the Council and lives a fairly normal life.
I's report is complete - he is 100% fit and will have no trouble in resuming his sporting activities -considering the first reports, this is a miracle. I do not know how I would have managed without your wonderful help.
You and the late Harry Edwards helped me so often and indeed I am still pressing on 18 years after I was expected to die from my last bout of cancer.
I wrote to ask for healing for my sister who was to undergo an operation for aneurysm in the aorta. Her operation was very successful. After 1 day in intensive care and 2 days in progressive care she was back in her own room and has done extremely well. She was allowed home after 7 days when she had been told to expect to be in hospital for 10 to 15 days. Everyone was amazed at her recovery and the surgeon told her she had been a perfect patient. I feel sure the absent healing and our prayers were to a great extent responsible for this wonderful recovery and I thank you most sincerely for your help.
I thought perhaps you would like to have a record of the people you have helped during the time I have been sending reports. M.L. -angina, complete recovery. D. L. -duodenal ulcer, complete healing. B.L. - Angina, complete recovery. P.D. - Leukaemia - apparent full recovery.
On behalf of my mother, daughter and myself may I thank you for the lovely day at your Sanctuary last Tuesday. My mother is so much better it is truly amazing. She can stretch out her arms and even raise them to her head and her walking is much stronger. My daughter was very impressed, too. 1141/6
My condition improved in as much as I now have much more self-confidence and ability to deal with my everyday life. 1145/6
G.S. Good news. Up until recently he had to be helped to get into and out of his car. It is adapted to enable a disabled person to drive, The other day he got into his car entirely on his own and drove some 12 miles to a nearby town. Got out on his own and went into a shop to make a purchase. No wheelchair anymore! 1142/6
You both, along with our friends in Spirit, have been directing healing for our daughter who, as I told you, has been given a full bill of health, thank you. 1146/6
I must report to you the miracle that soon after writing to you about my husband's ill health due to smoking, he decided to give up the habit and has not smoked since. I never thought it possible. It has been well worth it all. His general health has improved considerably. 1148/6
i wouldnt smoke no ganja,i tried smokin and it gave me a panic attack... but first off try to face what ever it is that has happend and try to tell yourself that these things can make u a stronger person and with you experience u can help guide others that are going through aot and that have had bad things happen to them... i grew up too with not everthing so pleasent i understand what u are saying..but dont let these things take control of the rest of your life..i did and i am 30 and still trying to fix all these emothional problems and control the anxiety and painc attacks..i would try to face what ever it is and just keep in minnd wat dont kill u can only make u stronger...and if u have to get a theropist ..i did and getting stuff off my chest and out really did help..at 1st i didnt think so ..but it does help and i use it as me time ...but i hope i helped u out a little at least..and u are not alone and i wish u the best of luck
Firstly,you need to go to bed earlier. I am in the habit of falling asleep at such hours too,and lack of sleep can effect your emotions. The only way to get around this is to stay awake until six sevenish in the evening and conk out to get your sleeping pattern back to normal. Being awake at them hours give you way too much time to think into yourself and find the negative things. We all have dreams and ambitions that we want to make come true. Your probably just emotionaly tired of being patient with making your way towards your goals,even though your sometimes not seeing any improvements. You need to inspire yourself again. Do something that will give you a strong sense of achievment..like hit the gym for an hour and you will come back out feeling mentally stronger and have more pride in yourself. Refusing things you dont need like a ciggarette or an temper outburst can put your thinking in good perspective afterwards,believe me,I know. Gain control of the little things before you try to gain control of the big things. Nip it in the bud or you will not make a change in this decline. Dont be scared of whatever it is that is scaring you. Conquer your fear,strive on,you know you can do it if you have being doing it all along before.:) Take care.x
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