Single Mothers. Single Pregnant woman. Please some advice or words of enlightment?

Im 19 years of age and pregnant. The father had completely abandonned me and made it perfectly clear he does not want to be in my life or the babies life. I have support from my family but I still feel alone. Some friends barely hang anymore knowing as how I can't do the same things I used to. So I guess I really decided to post this up for anyone who can really relate?Single Mothers. Single Pregnant woman. Please some advice or words of enlightment?
well i cant relate to the boyfriend thing because mine is still around but i can relate to the friends im 21 and mostly all of my friends want nothing to do with me anymore because i cant hang out and go to the bars anymore now that im pregnant. i also lost a best friend because she got jealous that i was pregnant and she isn't yet.. it really sucks but if you have your family's support then you will be ok just hold your head up high and move on with your life you can raise this baby on your own with family support it just takes time and courage. don't give up this baby needs you now more than anybody. good luck hunSingle Mothers. Single Pregnant woman. Please some advice or words of enlightment?
I don't have any experience but I would like to tell you that your hard times now will pay off. It's a brave thing you've done. Not many would have chosen that path. Your life ahead will be better, you will have time to find another in the future. Don't worry. Just focus on your little one who needs you most right now. To be strong. You may not see it now, but you will see that what you are doing right is something so real, so blessed. Rely and gain support from your family and those who love you. Be around them and not negativity right now. It's important that you be happy or try to be for the baby. Worry bout dating, friends and other social networking later on. Plenty of time. Trust me.





Your time will come later on.
you are blessed and will be fine. Thank God he showed his true color now. he does not deserve you or this precious life that you are carrying. things happen for reasons we cannot see at the time, but will be revealed down the road. God has someone better in store for you and this baby. All you can do is take care of yourself, and take care of this baby that's inside of you, teach this baby the right things, and how to be the best he/she can be in life, and you will be blessed. The day will come when the father will need this child. just do your best and try not to hate him that is too much wasted energy. remember God never give us more than we can handle. God bless you and your little one. I wish you well.
**** the father. that just shows how bad of a person he is. and the friends, if they aren't there for you when you really need them then that proves that they aren't true friends. you seem like a nice person and if your family is there for you, no worries. be happy. they love you and will support you the whole way. Don't feel lonely. you have YOUR baby and that, nobody can ever take away. when he/she grows up, they will love you no matter what.





best of luck!


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I feel for you.


This same thing happened to my best friend, but she's twenty.


As soon as she found out that she was pregnant, the ';father'; didn't want anything to do with her or the baby. He even changed his number! Fool.


Don't let this bring you down. The most support you have right now is from your family, and that is all that matters.


They still love you no matter what!


This baby is coming into your life, and it's going to teach you so much! Your gonna have such a better life when your baby gets here girl!


Just keep you head high!


Best of luck sweetie :)