Help! words of comfort pls dumped fri via text im shocked stunned cant even cry advice to move on pls?

msg came out of blue no fight argument disagreements ever. text said DO NOT CALL ME - DO NOT TEXT ME i was so surprised i did reply w one msg Huh what happened? sat get email - not a call - asking me to let him know if all ok as had rcvd 200 txt messages and over 45 calls fr me fri before he sent text - neither of which is true, something i have never done. nothing fr him today. i dont have the heart to respond to the email as im so confused. this was a committed relationship of 8 mos talking about getting engaged and married in 08. now this outright lie about the msgs and calls followed by wishy washy email. i realize he cares little about me to do something so cruel as breaking up w me via text instead of face to face. then the silly excuse. know im better off wo him but im my heart is broken - cant sleep eat. i was so wrong about him he lied wasnt the person i thght. pls advice how to move on...Help! words of comfort pls dumped fri via text im shocked stunned cant even cry advice to move on pls?
date me!!!!Help! words of comfort pls dumped fri via text im shocked stunned cant even cry advice to move on pls?
Someone who dumps another via a written message is someone you are well rid of. Thank your lucky stars you found out in time. You caught a break.
Not to worry, maybe he thought things were going too fast? But its not your fault and maybe he isnt the one for you. I think that the best advice for moving on is to just let it die (as quickly, or slowley as it takes) and I think that everyday will get that little bit easier for you! You will get over it, dont worry. Although, its a good idea to talk to a friend or something, you can tell them all the details and they wont judge you like people on the net that dont even know you! I hope you feel better :)
just hang out with frends they can help with almost anything so then you will get back into the game slowly and your frends will also mend your broken heart
im so sorry! i know this must be incredibly hard, but you sound like a very nice person who has no trouble opening your heart to love. (i know that sounds cheesy, but its really a good quality) it just sounds like he was too scared to give you a good reason for getting out of the relationship. hes not worth the heartache, someday youll find someone who will make you happier than he ever could.
Just try to go on with life. If you feel like crying.. go ahead and cry. Let it all out. Call your best friend and have a heart to heart with her. Grab your girls and have a girls day/night out. It may seem like you'll never get over it now.. but eventually you will. I experienced something like this... was dating this guy for a year and 4 months... broke up via text. I didn't think i would ever have gotten over it... but i did. Life's too short to dwell on things like this.... put a smile on and keep living your life to the fullest.
You just have to look at it as you deserve better.


And realize that your relationship was not what you thought it was.


It's better to learn that now, rather than later.


It's still going to take time to deal with it because it's a loss. And that takes grieving time.


Whenever you get upset and sad, you have to remind yourself that you didn't have what you thought it was.


Everything happens for a reason, and maybe this was your reason, because you deserve better.


Something better will come your way.


Good luck
WOW! Well, in this day %26amp; age we more or less have all of the tools at our disposal to NEVER actually talk to a person. I have to wonder - what the rest of the story is???? Your question is unclear and I am not following if you are accused of sending him a zillion messages or there was some unfounded accusation that he received a zillion messages from you. If there was a true plan of marriage et al, then NO WAY on earth would this be over in a text. What else happened?





If this is really all the information you can give, then why would you ever waste one more moment on this person? Sure, it is easier said than done; however if you have even a speck of respect for yourself, then you should easily see that ANYONE that treats you in this manner - has no right to your thoughts.





The truth of the matter is that you must ask yourself.. do I deserve better? If you hesitate or waver on the answer.. then maybe you do not.. BUT just look at the situation - honestly and then look ahead.





WOW!





I wish you well!
I certinaly sympathize w/you over your whole situation. He certainly was NOT the person you were lead to believe he was. That I'm sure of! Had he been, you certainly wouldn't have made all the plans w/him for your future w/him %26amp; only him. No doubt about it that he's a gutless user. Also, why in the world would he make up the lies of the messages %26amp; calls he received from you that he knew you had to have known were utterly not true. It almost sounds like something happened to his mind for him to carry on like he has!!!


The only encouragement I can give you is that you found out in time just what kind of a person he really is. Also the fact that you are far too good for him. No doubt about your heart being broken to pieces. Now you have to accept the fact that it's over %26amp; that you have to put the past in the past %26amp; start a new beginning. I KNOW you can do it. Of course it won't happen over nite, but your hurt w/no doubt turn to bitterness. Which in a way w/just be helpful to you. Please have NO contact w/him whatsoever. Don't let him say another word to you, God only knows he's said enuf already. I've found when one door closes another one opens AND that regardless if we ever know the reason why, things DO happen for a reason. Hang in there the best way you know how. You need the help %26amp; support of your friends now, that's what good friends are for. I'm sure you'd be there for any one of them, let them be there for you. You're going to go thru a lot of emotions w/this, cry when you feel you need to, get mad when you feel the need %26amp; do whatever makes you feel best at any given time. Do KNOW you'll be OK %26amp; that some day Mr. Right is going to come along for you. When it happens you'll surely know. You'll also know the difference of it as apposed to being used as you have been. Hang in there, %26amp; I certainally do wish you all the best. You too w/get what/who you deserve. Your's w/be all good tho!