Relationship advice, i need some words of wisdom from somebody?

My boyfriend and I have been dating now for about 8 months. I started off amazingly, and we fell quickly for one another. Everything was great for the first few months. We got in a big argument about a month and a half ago about a lot of different things but we resolved the issue. Since then we have both tried and have changed for one another and tried not to be so selfish and to learn how to give a little more to each other. Since then though, we both just arent as happy. I feel like our relationship has gone bipolar. One day we are great and the next day its ****. Its not seeming to get better. I dont know if its a temporary thing or if this relationship is just doomed to not get any better. We just had not really an argument but a talk about where this was going and we both addressed how we arent that happy. He brought it up and feels more strongly about it than i do, so i told him that he should take some time to think about things. I love him a lot and i know he loves me, i am just having trouble figuring out if we are that compatible for each other or if we are forcing it. I am a very loyal person and dont like to give up on things. We are both too future oriented and loyal to break up as of now. I would just love some advice or wisdom from somebody who has been through this or can relate or even someone just nice enough to share their opinion. Thank you. Sorry about how long this is.Relationship advice, i need some words of wisdom from somebody?
You've built a solid friendship by the sounds of it, maybe that's what you need to concentrate on now.


It might be that you've outgrown each other romantically and need to either break up or spend time apart, but keep the friendship.





Maybe you'll both meet other people, have other relationships and eventually decide you want each other, maybe you'll do that and eventually decide you're better apart.





Always keep the friendship though, 'cause friends last a lot longer than lovers.





Good luck (:Relationship advice, i need some words of wisdom from somebody?
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